Wednesday, March 30, 2016

One / Thirty-...Five?

A few weeks ago our Smoochface reached that big first birthday.  At her checkup this week she was looking great, measuring leaner and taller than average as per usual, but (to us at least) in the highest possible percentile for adorableness.  She didn't much care for her shot at the moment, but a few snuggles from Mommy and she was her usual happy self again.  She's overall such a pleasant and sweet girl, so cuddly these days and usually pretty sweet to new people.  She is absolutely walking and starting to talk just a bit and make animal sounds, which we can hardly stand how cute it is.  She has her way when it comes to meal time, hungry for what she's eating but only in just the moment she wants to eat it, and her naps are kind of hit-and-miss but her nighttime sleeping is great.  We love her ombre hair and her close-to-double-digits teeth and her scrunchy smile and her bright blue eyes.  She definitely has a nice loud wail that she uses to great effect when she feels it necessary, but overall she is a delight to one and all.

The Wife's great twelve-month update is just here, but here are some of my pictures:
Helping herself to one of Mommy's Valentine's Day gifts
Throwback to visiting the Puppy Barn
At the Provo City Center Temple open house.  She at least was very well-behaved there.
Enjoying a tea party hosted by Big Brother.
Helping with some home improvements
New favorite game!
The weather was finally getting nice enough to go out.
I love being home on the weekends and able to fetch this face after naps!
On her actual day of we just opened some presents (BB was happy to help her out with the wrapping paper/playing) and she tentatively tried out the strawberry shortcake provided by Mommy, and a few days later we had her birthday party playdate at the park, which was fun and with lots of cousins, and Mommy's amazing butterbeer cupcakes.  Kind of the opposite of The Boy's first birthday party, it was beautiful all morning long and then turned windy and cold by afternoon party time rolled around, but we bundled her up and she enjoyed her treat and some cozy snuggles while the kids played on the fun playground (and big bro took a tumble into the dry creek bed... watch your step there, Boy... more to come on that later).
Every little girl's birthday dream come true:  Costco.
Oh all right, and the mall.
Hee hee, Baby Yoda!
New book!
Ummmmm yes.
3 Cs: Cute, cold, cupcake. 

As usual, it's hard to forget our tiny baby but it's also hard to imagine her any other way than she is right now!  She has the sweetest disposition and I am always so so glad to see her clutching to the baby gate at the top of the stairs waiting to see me when I come home.  It's all I can do to not smother her with kisses at every moment.

Oh!  And then I had a birthday too.  Is it so weird that it's just hard to remember exactly how old you are when you get to a certain age?  I say it is so weird.  But I never mind a birthday (even if I am about halfway through the decade to 40...), and The Wife always makes it such a special occasion.  I went in to work a little late so I could enjoy my special birthday cereal with my three favorite people, and then was treated to lunch by my coworkers, and then had a special delicious dinner of my childhood pick spaghetti followed by presents, and THEN we had friends and family come over to enjoy another of The Wife's confectionary masterpieces.  She always does, but she really outdid herself this time.  It was great to have so many fun people come over, but we admit that we were sorry not to have leftovers...  Next time we'll make a bonus and hide it away.
Yes, Boy, you can have some Cinnamon Toast Crunch.
Aww, thanks, work.
The best pants ever.  I have worn them every day since then.
Masterpiece!
So much for good luck -- St. Patrick was not with me when I somehow or other shattered my poor iPod screen.  At least it still plays just fine.  Back in the day I would have done a whole blogpost about this, but eh.
Happy birthdays to us!  We both had good ones.

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

A Decade of Hmoob

Ten years ago...

... I entered this place (and didn't leave for almost three months) and met this guy (and became BFFs) and took a good long look at the Hmong language and thought, well, I'll never be able to understand any of this. Xav tsis thoob.
Saying goodbye to hearth and home.
L-R: Wiest, Lo, Cox, Vang, S. Wilson, kuv, A. Wilson, Johns
Tsob ntoo Hmoob, our beloved Hmong Tree
Hmoob hwjchim.  Sure, it's not the most Hmong pose, but what did I know?
The first of many Elder Potter photo shoots (with a sad sorry makeshift wand).
Sometimes you get kind of kooky after all those weeks inside a fence and need to do something rebellious... like pose for a picture in this security golf cart.
There comes a time when you feel like you just need to make a break for it.
Best surprise possible when my parents and sister showed up after being invited to a devotional!  Just the thing to give me that boost before heading out to the field.
I thought I knew a lot (and sure, why not, I did), but I definitely had a lot to learn, and even though I was in my mid-20s and a good half-decade-plus older than most of the other missionaries around me, I still had a lot of growing up to do, and a lot of good friends and great experiences on the way.
Finally WI bound.  I tell you, the bus ride to the airport and the flight were like going to Disneyland.
SO much has happened in the last decade it's crazy to look back and think about it all.  But then I also remember that at this time I had already interacted with my beloved, and then she took it upon herself to continue to write to me via the old school method once I entered the MTC, and I'm ever so glad she did.  (And I confess it was nice to finally see a picture of her.)

A lot of things have changed, but some things never will.  Faith, family, friends, Hmoob, and that rad picture of me in a golf cart...  It was a long stay in a small area, but it led to a whole lot of good.

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

Double-one / Valentines 2016

Well, our girl is just one month shy of hitting the big birthday, but before that here's her 11-month update, with some delicious Valentine's Day sprinkled over the top.  (Wife's blogpost is here.)

This girl is on the mooooove.  She crawls all over the place and at the time of her monthiversary was this close to taking those first few steps.  She isn't a very picky eater, though she does like variety and will often protest unless we break up the monotony by giving her bites of different things.  Her naps are hit-and-miss, but she sleeps quite well during the night.  As I said in the ten-month post, there have been a few times lately when she has been very vocal about bedtime and not wanting to put herself to sleep, and even resisting being put to sleep, but we calm her down and I've been really glad to take chances to put her down myself, not even bothering to rush because I realized with work and everything we don't get all that much daddy-daughter time, and those lovely and (eventually) quiet times come into my mind and linger there often for days after.  Oh, the soft and snoozy snuggles.  She and Big Brother are becoming really good friends and just sit there and laugh at each other, which never ceases to amuse Mom and Dad, and she is usually quite resilient whenever she happens to receive (on purpose or not) a bonk or a bop or a push or a kick).  She's starting to get into books, turning pages, admiring the interactive elements, even responding and making animal sounds (lion so far, and it is adorable).
There are few things these two love better than the car carts at Maceys.
I love whenever we get a chance to put these li'l Hmong hats on my babies!
Entranced by waking up to snow.
Just waiting for Mommy to get up from her well-deserved weekend sleep-in...
And then we had Valentine's Day!  There was a surprise snowstorm and we stayed home most all the day long and just enjoyed each other's loving company.  The kids were very excited to give Mommy her sundries (and some had to be a little late in coming, what with certain treats being hard to find every year for some reasons none of which being that I procrastinated and actually might have forgotten this year), and as per our usual tradition The Wife and I watched a Disney movie (Lady and the Tramp this year),
It was very important to him that Kitty had her socks on.
All my Valentines!  Not counting the balloon "cat" from Pizza Pie Cafe the night before.
Love is in the air and our smoochface only increases it so!  Is it so weird that it's already almost March??

Friday, February 5, 2016

Blogkeeping -- Spring 2015

No big deal, I've only been putting this off for like six months...

Movies watched from December 2014 (bottom) to July 2015 (top).  Verdict:  Catching up with DreamWorks animation like I do for some reason, and LOTS of Parks and Recreation and 30 Rock!

Tinker Bell and the Legend of the NeverBeast *** 1/2 • Legends of Oz: Dorothy's Return *** • Oz the Great and Powerful [r] *** 1/2 • My Best Friend's Wedding [r] *** 1/2 • My Big Fat Greek Wedding [r] *** 1/2 • The Muppets' Wizard of Oz *** • Return To Oz [r] **** • Dorothy In the Land of Oz [r] ** 1/2 • The Wiz [r] *** 1/2 • Journey Back to Oz [r?] *** • The Wizard of Oz [r] ***** • A Deadly Adoption * 1/2 • Far From the Madding Crowd (2015) ***** • The Prestige [r] ***** • Inside Out ***** • Jurassic World ***** • 30 Rock (Season 7) *** • Sherlock (Season 3) ***** • 30 Rock (Season 6) *** 1/2 • Live Free Or Die Hard ** 1/2 • 30 Rock (Season 5) *** 1/2 • The Professional ** 1/2 • Daredevil (Season1) *** 1/2 • Unbroken *** 1/2 • Big Eyes **** • Tomorrowland *** 1/2 • Survivor: Worlds Apart (Season 30) *** 1/2 • Grimm (Season 4) *** • The Amazing Race (Season 26) **** • The Big Year **** • Gotham (Season 1) *** • Bates Motel (Season 3) *** 1/2 • 30 Rock (Season 4) *** 1/2 • Veronica Mars [r] **** • Argo *** 1/2 • Song of the Sea **** • 30 Rock (Season 3) *** 1/2 • Middlemarch ** 1/2 • Zero Dark Thirty *** 1/2 • Broadchurch (Series 2) ** 1/2 • Romy and Michele's High School Reunion *** • 30 Rock (Season 2) *** 1/2 • Into the Woods (Regent's Park) **** • Never Let Me Go *** 1/2 • 30 Rock (Season 1) *** • Into the Woods [r] **** 1/2 • Parks and Recreation (Season 7) ***** • Parks and Recreation (Season 6) **** 1/2 • Parks and Recreation (Season 5) **** • Parks and Recreation (Season 4) **** • The Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 1 [r] **** • Parks and Recreation (Season 3) **** 1/2 • Parks and Recreation (Season 2) **** • Parks and Recreation (Season 1) *** 1/2 • The Book of Life ** 1/1 • The BoxTrolls *** 1/2 • X-Men: Days of Future Past [r] **** • Big Hero 6 [r] **** • Mr. Peabody and Sherman *** 1/2 • Turbo ** 1/2 • The Croods *** • Madagascar 3: Europe's Most Wanted ** 1/2 • Puss In Boots *** • Shrek: The Musical *** 1/2 • Agent Carter (Season 1) *** • Tangled [r] **** 1/2 • Looper *** • Project Runway: All Stars (Season 4) *** • Luther (Season 3) **** • The Last Five Years (x2) **** 1/2 • Luther (Season 2) **** • Luther (Season 1) **** • The Amazing Race (Season 16) ** • Magic In the Moonlight ** 1/2 • No Good Deed *** 1/2 • Galavant (Season 1) *** • Resurrection (Season 2) *** 1/2 • Shakespeare Retold **** 1/2 • The Hobbit (Funny Puzzle edit) **** • The Amazing Race (Season 15) *** • Romeo & Juliet (2013) ** 1/2 • Little Dorrit [r] **** • The Amazing Race (Season 14) **** • Oliver! [r] *** 1/2 • Oliver Twist (2007) *** • What's Eating Gilbert Grape? [r] *** • Oliver Twist (1998) **** • Dawn of the Planet of the Apes ** • The Guardians of the Galaxy [r] *** • The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King [r] ***** • The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers [r] ***** • The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring [r] ***** • Prometheus ** 1/2 • Click [r] **** • It Could Happen To You [r] *** 1/2 • If I Stay ** 1/2 • Frozen [r] *** 1/2 • Into the Woods (1990) **** 1/2 • The Cabin In the Woods ** 1/2 • Into the Woods **** 1/2

And these 50 books were read from February to July 2015.  Welcome to the list, Stroud.

The Housekeeper's Dog (Jerry Smath) **** • But No Elephants (Jerry Smath) **** • Under Construction (Paula Hannigan) **** • Otis Loves To Play (Loren Long) *** • Otis (Loren Long) **** • Bill Peet: An Autobiography (Bill Peet) ***** • Piggies (Don and Audrey Wood) ** 1/2 • But Not the Hippopotamus (Sandra Boynton) ***** • Dinosaur's Binkit (Sandra Boynton) **** • Son of a Witch (Gregory Maguire) ** • Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West (Gregory Maguire) *** • Ozma of Oz (L. Frank Baum) **** • The Marvelous Land of Oz (L. Frank Baum) *** 1/2 • The Wonderful Wizard of Oz (L. Frank Baum) **** 1/2 • How Do Dinosaurs Go Up and Down? (Jane Yolen and Mark Teague) *** • Kittens (Laura Ellen Anderson) **** • Sector 7 (David Wiesner) *** 1/2 • Art & Max (David Wiesner) **** • The Ring of Solomon (Jonathan Stroud) *** 1/2 • Beatrice & Virgil (Yann Martel) *** 1/2 • Belly Button Book! (Sandra Boynton) **** • Happy Birthday, Little Pookie (Sandra Boynton) *** 1/2 • Little Pookie (Sandra Boynton) ***** • Eats, Shoots & Leaves: The Zero Tolerance Approach To Punctuation (Lynne Truss) ***** • Hippopposites (Janik Coat) ** 1/2 • BooBoo (Olivier Dunrea) ** • Crocodaddy (Kim Norman) **** • You Are My Cupcake (Joyce Wan) **** • How Do Dinosaurs Count To Ten? (Jane Yolen & Mark Teague) **** • The Romance of the Forest (Ann Radcliffe) *** • The Royal Road to Romance (Richard Halliburton) **** • The Farmer and the Clown (Marla Frazee) ***** • The Book With No Pictures (B.J. Novak) *** 1/2 • Flora and Ulysses: The Illuminated Adventures (Kate DiCamillo) **** • It Looked Like Spilt Milk (Charles G. Shaw) *** 1/2 • The Borrowers (Mary Norton) *** • A Little Princess (Frances Hodgson Burnett) ***** • The Devil In the White City (Erik Larson) **** • Guess How Much I Love You (Sam McBratney) ***** • The House In the Night (Susan Marie Swanson) *** • How Do Dinosaurs Learn Their Colors? (Jane Yolen & Mark Teague) *** • The Great Greene Heist (Varian Johnson) *** 1/2 • Ptolemy's Gate (Jonathan Stroud) ***** • The Golem's Eye (Jonathan Stroud) **** • The Amulet of Samarkand (Jonathan Stroud) **** 1/2 • BabyLit: The Wonderful Wizard of Oz (Jennifer Adams, ill. by Allison Oliver) *** • BabyLit: Frankenstein (Jennifer Adams, ill. by Allison Oliver) **** • Mr. Wuffles! (David Wiesner) **** 1/2 • Flotsam (David Wiesner) ***** • How Do Dinosaurs Clean Their Rooms? (Jane Yolen and Mark Teague) ****

(Also, why haven't I been using the • all this time?  It reads so much clearer than all those /s floating around.)

EDIT 14 November 2016: I almost just lost this entire post.  It wouldn't have been in the worst thing in the world, but still... X|  Thank you, forward/back/cache functions.

Thursday, January 21, 2016

The Tenth

Our girl is in the double digits.  On the one hand I can't believe she's already almost a year old but on the other hand I can't believe she was born only last year.  She's just such a part of our family now it's hard to imagine it without her (luckily, since she's not going anywhere).

She had a really fun first Christmas and seemed to quite enjoy everything about it (especially the bottom third of the tree), though she's still getting used to the idea of snow, of which we had a blessed abundance this year.  As predicted, she was pretty interested in wrapping paper, though she also really enjoyed her new toys and books.  She has a hearty appetite these days, when it's something she's interested in, though she sometimes prefers to be held while eating.  She's super active and loves to follow people around and discover them when they've gone to another part of the room or behind a door.  She seems to like it when I sing to her (more than I remember her brother liking it), and she can often be heard giggling heartily or sighing wistfully, which are both completely charming in their own way.  The other day we left her with Mom and Dad while we went to Star Wars and dinner and she was perfectly fine the whole time.  Yay!  It's just nice to know she's okay with being left places for a few hours (though we were quite glad to squish her again when we came back) (thanks as always, by the way, Mom and Dad).

As ever, The Wife's update is here, but here are a few Insta/phonepictures:
Sometimes I just want to stare at them and remember every single little thing.
Fun li'l Santa pile.
Yes, maybe these presents were more for our amusement, but they liked them too.
Just being happy with her new octopus
New fleecy hoodie from Grandma!  I think she likes it.
Baby, what are you doing to me?!?
I guess she wasn't really interested in sitting up any more.
She's such a smooch I can hardly stand it, and even though she's been having an issue or two with sleeping (most of the brunt of which falls on The Wife since it's mostly to do with naps... sorry, Wife), and she is starting to act a little more independent and willful (the dramatic dodges at mealtimes), she is usually pretty easygoing and sweet and funny, and she and The Boy love to talk and play and giggle together.  Sometimes I'm blown away by how beautiful and clever and sweet this girl of ours is.

As a preview for month 11, just last night she kept me up to the wee-ish hours, when she was mostly happy in her second wind but not really interested in sleep, and making it known whenever I tried to put her down, but I was eventually able to sort of trick her into nodding off and then crawled ever so slowly and quietly out of the room before she could protest, but really (though I was tired and a little frustrated at the time) I think she might have been saying "Da!" in that sweet little voice of hers, and she was quite snuggly, and I don't always get these opportunities since most of the time she prefers Mommy, so I guess I better step back and be grateful for it all.  All too soon she'll be where her brother is and we'll be wondering where our baby girl went.

P.S. Again I feel like The Wife needs some props.  It's hard these frigid days to be inside for most of the time, and the cabin fever can start to affect all parties involved, so I'm amazed as always at what she can do, even when it's challenging. :*

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

We Wish You a Merry... and a Happy... (2015-2016)

Just a quick post with more details about Christmas before I forget them all...

What a wonderful Christmastime was this last!  It was busy and crazy but fun and snowy and all the things that Christmas should be.
:D
We thought this tree looked like a Weasley.  Pigwidgeon it is.  (I will also say that I felt really bad throwing our tree out a couple weeks ago... It stood tall and strong and beautiful without being watered for days on the back patio and even after I put it on the curb.  Well done, Costco.)

Let's make a little list:

I was... recruited to sing with a fun community choir, which ended up being a lot more of a commitment than I expected, but also really enjoyable.  We had a handful of concerts in various venues (Temple Square was fun but a drive, and the AF library atrium is interesting for a chance, and a high school auditorium always brings back memories, though the Alpine Tabernacle is probably the best overall), and it gave me a chance to wear a sparkly bow-tie and cummerbund, so there is that.
 Our family Christmas portraits turned out beautifully and arrived just in time to put on display:
Thanks, Kami!
At work we had a white elephant exchange party, and in true white elephant fashion I found whatever I had on hand (not that I forgot until I arrived at work or anything...), and it turned out my gift was pretty popular and was traded around a few times.
If you think that I just found something in my car and put it in a gift bag... well, you're right, but I also embellished with a couple of wintertime accoutrements.
I didn't end up with this remarkable piece, but it was enough for me to know that it even exists (it's a musical box that plays The Entertainer).

We also had a team building activity building "gingerbread" houses. Mine is a miserable failure, but hey, I went out on a limb and tried to tie it to HP.
Sorry, Hagrid.
Then of course Star Wars was a thing going on, so we went to that eventually (we didn't plan on seeing it right away, but the threat of spoilers grew too great).  This was a Sunday morning art activity, which ended up featuring a certain young Jedi.
Wife, Rey and Baby Jesus.
 For Primary we had our 2nd annual Primary Christmas Concert, where each class takes a turn singing one song in front of the rest of the group and it turned out to be really great.  Some classes went above and beyond in preparing visual aids or learning sign language.
While I was at my Temple Square concert I took a few minutes to walk around and look at the lights in the rain.
 Then it was Christmas Eve and the kids were in bed and Santa was on the way and we realized that we haven't watched this in a while:
And then it was Christmas morning!  It's been interesting with two kids, one getting older and realizing what Christmas morning means, and trying to find a good balance of gift giving, and I really felt great about what we gave and how much.  It's hard because there are soooo many fun things and I feel like I said, "oh, he/she would totally love that" like a hundred times, but in the end they would love quite a lot of things, but that doesn't mean they NEED all the things.  As it is it's been almost a month and he's still not tired on that train or those tools.
We love Santa!  (But we love Jesus more.)
As for us, we treated each other to fun and great things, from literary adaptations (Jonathan Strange!  Far From the Madding Crowd!) to books (art and HP music and AG!) and some great supplies for my cubicle, and some unique touches as well.  That Hogwarts sweater quite becomes our favorite Gryffindor.
I'm kind of thinking he doesn't quite grasp the concept of stockings?  Or maybe he does and we're the ones who don't.
And then I decided I better take an extra day off work to spend the day with these three beloveds:

(The inclusion of the train was a coincidence in the first two, but totally planned in the third.)
We spent plenty of time with family and having the usual fun and foods (fondue) (pullaparrrrts...) (little buffet at home), and webcamming with our family in the Midwest and generally having a nice time, enjoying being home together, and watching the snow fall off and on.
as
My top Instaposts of the year.  Is it surprising that every single one features Poopsie?
New Year's Eve was fun with family goings-on and then, well, watching the ball drop on YouTube at around 10:37 and calling it a night.  Then of course it was time for the annual shave-and-a-haircut, which this year evidently meant going full-on buzzer without even the shortest attachment.  Brr.
Don't be deceived by her puzzled expression, she knew her daddy.
This middle step we like to call the 24601.
This was a really interesting year, from a lot of highs (a certain arrival in mid-March, lots of family visits, actual road trips) to a few lows (lost job, insane societal issues, new sleeping schedules), but we're the four of us standing tall.

I really think it was the merriest Christmas yet, at least for me, and there were many times when I just sat and observed and it was like Christmastime was all brand new again for me, whether sitting back watching my little ones just doing their thing on Christmas morning or learning some new Christmas songs or snuggling with my darling girl.  It's always sad when it's over, but hey, we're already 2/3 through January, right?

Bring it, 2016.