Thursday, October 1, 2009

A Message to the Technology Generation

This post has been a long time coming. The idea started last fall when I used to run every day past a certain Mexican fast food restaurant that proudly displayed window decals detailing their latest marketing campaign: "WHY PAY MORE!" Isn't this a question?... Can't you get the point of urgency and excitement across with color, style and font, and still manage to punctuate properly?...

Also, not long ago, a friend told me to stop using big words (like "intuitive"?...) because, as he said, "it makes u sound dumb"... Seriously? I'm the one who sounds dumb?...

So, maybe it's because we as a generation communicate much more online than we used to, but I have noticed a worrying trend in overall literacy. As many of you know, I'm the worst kind of grammar snob, and have at times appointed myself the local (and/or facebook) grammar police. I'm positive this is rather maddening to almost everyone (except those like me who are anal about this and appreciate being informed that they made an embarrassing mistake before many more notice), but sometimes I just can't help myself. (Some may cite this as inconsistency of style, considering my appreciation for abbreviations or, as I like to call them, abbreves, some favorites of which are "OMG," "WTH," and "tradish," etc., but there is a time and place for these, and I think their use is appropriate as long as they are used knowingly and purposely.) I'm not exactly sure when or how this trait developed, but I think it gets more pronounced as time goes by.* My constant notice of this is especially frustrating as my grammar senses have become heightened working in a publishing company. When I design and proof-read ads, I am mortified when I see sloppy errors finding their way to print. Do you know how many people these things have to get past before they're approved?? Are we just that uneducated about punctuation, grammar, capitalization and basic sentence structure? My high school English teacher would have their heads, that's for sure. It's especially infuriating when it comes from an otherwise professional establishment. Here are a few of the more vexing trends I've noticed lately.
  • Missing or misplaced apostrophes: Okay, everyone, listen up. Contractions are words that are mashed together, such as "can't" (cannot), "don't" (do not), "shouldn't" (should not), "it's" (it is), "I'm" (I am), "you're" (you are) and "we're" (we are) and in these, an apostrophe is necessary, and indicates omission of letters. This is especially important when omitting letters makes the word mean something entirely different (such as the difference between "we're" and "were"). Apostrophes also indicate possession, such as "Drew's blog" or "the internet generation's illiteracy." (Exceptions include "hers," "his" or "its.") For the record, pluralizing a word NEVER EVER EVER requires an apostrophe. Ever.
  • Substituting numbers or letters for a full word: The worst thing about this juvenile practice is that you're usually saving yourself the trouble of typing one or two whole additional letters. Are we really that lazy? Can we really not bother to type "your" instead of "ur"? Or "to" instead of "2"? Or "you" instead of "u"? Or "for" instead of "4"? Or "why" instead of "y"?? It just makes you look like a ten-year-old. Then again, I wonder if I would prefer to see "Ur awesome" rather than "Your awesome"... You can see the dilemma. Maybe this kind of practice was acceptable in days of telegrams and such, when brevity was key. Now it's just careless.
  • Writing excessively in all caps: I admit there is a time and place for going all caps lock on everyone (see two points above), but those times are few and far between.
  • Mixing up homonyms: This doesn't happen quite as often as some others, but includes writing "too" instead of "to" (or vice versa), or "then" instead of "than," "loose" instead of "lose" or any mixture of "they're," "there" and "their," etc.
  • Misspelling words: Enough said. This one is more common, though, and probably more understandable. Some words are harder to spell, and don't come intuitively.
  • Misused punctuation: Commas, question marks and exclamation points are all very handy, and each has a very specific purpose.
  • I instead of me: "My girlfriend and me went to this new restaurant," or "Email Julie or I for more information." This is irritating to no end. I think a lot of times people think using "I" is always correct, and they think they sound intelligent, but it's not always the case. There's a very simple way to determine when which term should be used. Just remove the other party and see how you would say the sentence. Take the above examples. Would anyone say "Me went to this new restaurant" or "Email I for more information?" No way! The opposite, however, is entirely correct.
  • The spilling of all of the above into real life situations: I read a sign at the gym that informed us all that the Pilates class had been changed, and now takes place "Friday's at 8:00." I see some grapes at the store that were .99¢/lb. (That's less than one cent! What a bargain!) I spy a marquee for a store that stated their product was "4 SALE!" I receive a note from a friend that said, "Your so funny!" (My what is so funny?) I proofread a paper that said, "This is definitely a better option then the other one." I receive an order at work that read, "This is her photo, plz use our's." Someone writes me an email and says, "I was so glad to receive you're email, I just knew I had to respond to your's right away!" Look around, you'll see infractions, major and minor, all over.
And yes, I believe this applies even to casual internet conversation, online chat and text messages. I know people are often writing quickly or casually, but it takes just as long (if not shorter) to try to write things properly most of the time. It might require a tad more brainwork, but who couldn't stand to fire a few more neurons than usual? If anyone notices a typo in anything I write, I guarantee it is unintentional, and by all means, feel free to point it out to me. Am I being unreasonable? Do I expect too much? Some might think so, but I disagree. There's just no excuse for an adult in these days of mass produced literature and continuous communication to lack in these very basic skills. I do admit a tiny bit more ignorance in this department would make my life a little more relaxing, but it would also make it a lot less interesting.

This passion could go all the way back to when I used to participate in grade school spelling bees. But now, what have we become?? Curse you, Spell Check and Grammatik! And curse you further, MySpace, Twitter and facebook! You have made us lazy and ambivalent!

P.S. It also bugs me when people write with alternating upper case and lower case letters ("OmG, tHiS bLoG iS sOoOoO cUtE!"). But that's not really a grammar thing. Just sayin'.

* Looking back, my dad was always correcting our grammar growing up, and my mom was a very thorough proofreader of school papers, and also I, like most of us, possess a certain inclination to at least some OCD tendencies. So probably all three of these factors contributed to this part of my person.

21 comments:

  1. It's weird to me that kids these days will turn in school assignments using things like "ur" and "2" and "omg." Will they be the ones to change their ways when their generation takes over the working world or will all of us have to adapt to their ways? That kind of sounds like the plot of a grammatically-themed science fiction movie.

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  2. [yOu ArE vErY cLeveR!]. This really bothers me to. I mean too. Sorry. Have you heard of Verbal Advantage? I think you would really like it. Your post was fun to read.
    Stephanie (used to be Nielson) B.
    p.s. Who was your English teacher? Mine was Mr. Blaisdell and I don't think he understood any of these principles. Ha!

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  3. Thanks, Stephanie! My teacher was Mrs. Giles, and for two years! That woman knew her stuff. I haven't heard of Verbal Advantage, I'll have to check it out. And I'm glad you enjoyed this endless rant!

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  4. HoLY CrAp what is ur problem. LOL I agree we's all got problem's these dAys.

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  5. My blog is FULL of unintentional typos, (some of which you have gone ahead and corrected me on-ahem) but I agree with you on all points, even if I don't always get them all right. Especially the ones that get published and printed. I try to look something up if I'm not sure about the correct way of writing it. Something that bugs me (kind of like you're thing with the uPpEr/LoWeR cAsE aversion) is when people try to make a point by putting a period between every word in a sentence. For instance: Oh. My. Word. Yeah, it can be funny, and help you annuciate your point sometimes, but it is WAY overused. Anyway, there's my two cents, but I am in no way as educated as you to say anything else.

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  6. If I thought any of my kids would read this I would make it into a poster in my classroom. I'd also like to staple it to the heads of several people that I see posting on different venues on the internet. Last fall I saw a campaign sign that said "its' instead of "it's" and it drove me nuts! Come on people, I know that sometimes typos and things happen, but please stop being so lazy. I play some online video games, and I'm really nice to people that type correctly, but I won't help people that message me with something stupid like "plz 2 hlp w dis".

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  7. Amen, brother!

    Some "experts" are claiming that these habits aren't affecting students' ability to write correctly. I say, "hogwash!" It's to the point now where people don't even know the difference between "your" and "you're," "than" and "then," or "to," "two," and "too." At least people still know the difference between "won" and "one." At least for now.

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  8. This is very true. I can't help but wonder if school has a large part in this. My kids do not receive any training in spelling past 5th grade. Really, do they have every spelling technique they could possibly need at the tender age of 11? When I have asked about this, the answer I get is that kids today do not need this skill because of spell check. Apparently they are too busy teaching the kids to accept morally reprehensible behaviour as diversity, to teach grammar basics.

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  9. Harsh. Most people are just trying to get by, right?

    Well, ok...I will follow these rules if you will swear that every turn or lane change you make henceforth will involved a turn signal.

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  10. Jann: That is an outrage. One day spell check will fail us and then where will we be?

    Matt: I always signal when I change lanes or turn! So yes, we agree to agree.

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  11. Yay! PS. I wasn't aiming my lane change comment at you directly. :)

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  12. As an editor, I have the same problems with misused punctuation (especially apostrophes and commas), and spelling errors are equally as irksome. I too, think people ought to be careful in their interweb discussions. HOWEVER, I am not perfect. I make mistakes in my blogs and comments. And yes, I am mortified when Jake or someone else points them out. And yet, I do not feel the urge to proofread my internet documents unless they are especially important. I never use pretend words (Ur and the like), but if there is a typo, I am not one to judge. Typos are not ignorance, they are just mistakes. Forgive as you are forgiven Drew--just in the case of typos.

    The end.

    (Oh, and read Eats, Shoots and Leaves please, if you haven't already.)

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  13. This post isn't about typos, it's about laziness. That is all.

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  14. I am a compulsive proofreader. When I can't stand one more extraneous apostrophe, I go out and edit Wikipedia until the rage subsides.

    Right now I'm going through a recently-reprinted edition of a favorite childhood book. When I've finished marking up the numerous (and I mean NUMEROUS) errors, I plan on sending it back to the publisher. I'm serious. No book should be allowed to go into print with so many errors in spelling, grammar and usage. Was their copy editor on vacation?

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  15. HONESTLY! <<(appropriate caps) i cannot stand it. if i ever do something like that i want you to tell me right away. Actually, i'm sure you will. You have before, in fact. HAH i knew all of those grammar rules and felt smarter for reading and confirming them within myself. ahhh thanks drew. :)

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  16. and just for the record... i dislike adding -ish to everything. though i know how much you love it. just FYI. :)

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  17. Thank your ladies and gentlemen. My Facebook post expanded.

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  18. it's time to post something new, drew. ps. you were in my dream last night. you were telling me all about julie. from the sounds of it.. she seems pretty fun. HAH

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  19. Hi. Roandom drop in here. I often feel the same way. One of my pet peeves is "for sell". And as far as the spell check argument goes, it doesn't help you any with your/you're, piece/peace, etc. so spelling is still important to know!

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